Tips on decent housing or How I learned the hard way.
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Finding a decent place to live is probably the most expensive, frustrating, and time consuming thing you can do. Moving is a real pain in the butt and so are mortgages, insurance and taxes. There are some things to consider when choosing what type of place you wish to live in.
Here are some questions you need to ask yourself before looking for a residence.
Do I have or want pets? Is my job secure and steady, How much do I have to spend?
Does my income fluctuate from month to month? How is my credit?
There is nothing wrong with apartments. You can live in a decent neighborhood, hassle free with no yard work or home repairs. The downside is you pay several hundred dollars each month while gaining no equity. Apartment complexes are notorious for odd rules, poor parking and bad neighbors. The lack of privacy and a yard are also things to consider.
Buying a home is another option. If you can save a down payment and get the financing, owning a home is usually the best way to go. A house payment will usually be lower than apartment rent per square foot but you will have to figure in the escrow of taxes and insurance into your monthly payment.If you are a first time home buyer, you can find a realtor to show you around (which can be a colossal waste of time) or you can search for a home yourself and then call the realtor on the sign to arrange a walkthrough.
It’s best to start off buying a small older home in an established neighborhood. You may find that nice new subdivision down the road has gone to the meth labs, graffiti and gang bangers in just a few short years. Also, if you have kids check the school district and sex offender registry in your area before buying.
When negotiating for a house bid low. They will always come back with a counter offer. Never get pressured by the realtor when they say "we have several bids or I have a nice couple coming to look at it in 15 min so you had better make an offer if you want this house" Its all a load of Bull. Take your time, shop around and find a house with the features you will need and want.
Get a reputable home inspector NOT hired by the seller to check out a property. This will cost a couple of hundred dollars but will save you in the long run and will give you negotiation points when it’s time to go back to the bargaining table. Be sure to get the best FIXED interest rate you can and forget about buying points and all that other crap.
Do not get fooled into the interest only loans where you get a $400,000 house for $700 per month for the rest of your life. You never end up owning anything unless the property values skyrocket. Which is unlikely in this market.
Once you get financed and move into your new home. Don’t start any major projects right away. Settle in, unpack and take stock of your new surroundings, do some cheap decorating, clean the place up and paint a few walls before you gut the kitchen or start tearing down walls. Remember, once you start a project it’s easy to lose steam , run out of money and end up miserable in a torn up half finished house.
Keep in mind when making your house payment most of the money will go toward interest for the first several years. After 5 years of paying your mortgage do not be surprised if you only have a few hundred dollars payed toward the principal.
If you want to get some quick equity, be sure to write a separate check or make a payment earmarked for equity aside from your regular mortgage payment. Otherwise, they will put your extra money towards interest. Aren’t banks wonderful?
Whenever possible, try to fix things yourself. Nothing is really that hard if you do a little research and take your time. Fixing toilets, sinks, ceiling fans, drywall, landscaping can be quick and cheap weekend projects. Remember start small and do a little at a time.
If you are physically able, mow and edge your own yard. A self propelled lawn mower and electric edger will cost less that $400 and will save you the $100 plus per month an unreliable landscaper will charge you.
Be sure to install smoke alarms, Carbon monoxide detectors and at least 2 good fire extinguishers.
I learned a lot of this stuff the hard way I hope you don't have to.
Labels: Personal interest, Self help
24 Comments:
Very informative!
I found it easy to get sucked into just wanting to make an offer because I wanted a house so badly. Luckily my husband was the more patient of the two of us, and reminded me to wait until we found what was really right and not be so willing to make concessions I'd later regret. Great advice in this one!
Great info- guess we simply lucked out. We had a choice of 3 homes for our first buy. I was extremely anxious about being able to meet the payments if interest rates doubled again and there wasn't much in my comfort zone. We sold it 5 years later at 3 times the price to the first person who looked at it, no real estate fee. Our area and house type was extremely in demand at the time. We purchased our next home under power of sale. There was a lot wrong with it BUT those things were in a long list provided by the city and had to be fixed before we could move in. Most were minor - the major we could do ourselves at little cost because we had equipment and manpower to do it. We've been here almost 20 years and have been mortgage free for nearly 10 of them.
We don't have the same concerns with schools as you do there. We have regional school boards that oversee curriculum etc and schools are not that different in quality.
We could have done much worse for certain.
Yes, some great tips, only about 20 years too late! Maybe I can apply them to my retirement condo when that day comes.
Good luck with the hunt! Learing the hard way sucks, but at least you learned something!
Spot-on hammer...and I learned all this the hard way too!
Solid list.
As someone who bought a house and then sold it for a loss during a divorce, I don't have much good to say about the "building equity" business. I might give it another shot sometime... maybe.
Have been where and done what Hammer proposed. Could not be summed up any better! Good job Hammer.
PS: He did forget one option: I will be moving in with Hammer next week as he has already done all this hard crap. It will only be a matter of weeks before he is driven out alltogether! It's called the MOOCH factor.
Invented by Sumdood who moved back in with his parents!
LOL- Good stuff Hammer!
John
EXCELLENT advice!
I've never understood how people can afford to completely gut and remodel the house they just bought. Moving and hooking up the utilities are expensive, and exhausting, enough.
This is what I hope to be doing within the next year or 2
Sound advice, Hammer, and good for pointing out the checking with the local sex-offender registry. Too many people wait until it's too late.
Veritas et Fidelis Semper
So true. Interesting post. My sister is shopping for her first house. Real estate is ridiculously expensive now!
Lots of good points here, Hammer ! I also think that your mortgage payments each month should never be more than 20% of your monthly net income. And please get a 30 year fixed, do not get an adjustable mortgage. Otherwise, the burden makes it just not fun.
Carrie: thanks!
Terri: I'm usually the one that gets starry eyed and my wife brings me back to reality.
Jeannie: sounds like you did really well. Perfect timing.
Mushy: I wouldn't mind retirng to a nice condo :)
Jenny: Yeah it would be sad if I made a bunch of mistakes and didn't get anything out of it :)
jenafear: What doesn't kill us makes us stronger :)
minijohnb: man that sucks, divorce and such really throw a wrench in the works.
Johm: thanks I'll leave the light on for ya ;)
tshsmom: I've seen people take out huge loans and second mortages just to make their house livable, I always figured buy something decent in the first place
snowmanpoop: Its a buyers market hope you find what you are looking for.
Deborah: yeah my inlaws found 3 on their street, I don't let my kids play outside at grandmas.
jessica: thanks for stopping by and good luck to your sister. Decent housing can be priced way out of range for many people.
Great advice-I don't know if I'll ever be able to put it to the test, though. But it's interesting, I didn't know that about the separate equity payments.
Some folks use their discretionary income for luxuries like eating out, taking vacations, and going out on the town.
My luxury is paying someone else to do my yard! We worked out a good deal, where the 4 houses that share the cul-de-sac pay a deeply discounted rate to have a service cut all 4 lawns at once.
Ditto on that fixed rate, and go easy on those equity loans once you build it up to a decent amount.
Some very good advice here. We rent our home and I love the house but renting surely SUCKS!!!!!Maybe someday....I can surely dream anyway..lmao.
I live in an extremely small apartment in a nice neighborhood, so I have a huge morgage but no garden... :-(
This is a fantastic primer on buying a house. The one thing I would add is that if you simply call the realtor on the sign for that particular house, they stand to gain a lot simply by "representing" you AND the buyer. However, their fiduciary duty is to the seller, and their interest is to bag as much for the seller as possible. I think if you look around and find a good realtor who listens to you and who is sensitive to your aesthetic as well as what you want in a house and a neighborhood, they will be able to shepherd you to something that fits your needs ideally without compromising your budget.
I also would run like hell from any realtor who encouraged you to spend the max (or, God forbid, MORE than) the bank will approve you for. Banks are over-lending, and this gets people in trouble. Better to have less house and less payment than to get in too deep.
Thanks for this fantastic post. You are such a fantastic writer, and a very clear thinker.
What great advice!! I have owned the same home for around 14yrs - plus one other inbetween. I don't intend on selling or buying for a few more!
There's one more thing...you can look at 50 homes and think "this one is OK" or "this one could work" or "this one has 4 of the things on our list" BUT when you walk into the ONE, you just KNOW it's the ONE! Do you agree??
Grate informations, Hammer
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July 07, 2007 07:00 PM
Janet: the equity payments are a very commone and horrid mistake many make.
El capitan: I used to do the same but then my guy got deported back to mexico ;)
canadian: I used to feel the same way but got lucky and found an owner finainced home with owners willing to take a risk on us.
evalinn: sometimes I wish I had no garden :)
phlegmmy: Very good point. I hired realtors twice and all they showed me were crack houses. I asked them to stop and they said they had no choice, I wondered if it was because of my hispanic last name.
kb: once you are in one it is so hard to leave :)
kirsten: thank you :)
I say rent 'til your heart's content.
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