True junkies.
I began playing an online video game several years ago at the urging of some friends. They swore that it was better than sex. (like they ever got any). I plunked down my 50 bucks and my first monthly fee of $11.95 and tried out this virtual world.
These types of games are called mmporg's (massively multiplayer online role playing games). My friends invited me to their guild and I got down to playing.
The game was exciting, difficult and fun, we would all log on and go into dangerous places and kill monsters.
If you died, your guy appeared naked at the nearest city and you had to run back to your corpse un-armed. If you didn't retrieve your corpse within a certain time period all your costly equipment disappeared and you had to start all over.
After playing for a while I noticed my friends began to change. They became absorbed into the game and rarely came out of their homes for our usual Tuesday beer night, professional basketball game or just to hang out.
A couple of my friends had their girlfriends leave them because they were tired of competing with the game for attention
A couple of other friends lost their jobs because they no longer showed up to work.
One guy was so bad off that a group of us went over to check on him. We walked into his house and noticed all his furniture was gone and he was alone in an empty bedroom with his computer on top of a cardboard box.
He had lost his job, girlfriend, and had sold all of his furniture to pay for this electronic crack. I noticed that he had gone down to about 95 pounds from a diet of Cheetos and cigarettes.
We set up an intervention one night and ripped the Internet cable out of the back of his house.
He couldn't afford to pay for the repair and soon lost his house and had to go back to live with mom and dad.
Actually four friends, all educated professionals around 30 years old had to go back to live with their parents after this video game obsession ruined their lives.
And they still didn't stop playing...
I still liked the game but I could no longer bring myself to play it with these guys anymore. How could I condone their behavior? This game was my hobby but I still took care of my family, kept my job and had a life.
Then I started reading news stories about people actually killing each other over in game items (these are virtual pretend fake swords and armor that they earned in the game), One guy stabbed his room mate for selling a game item. The divorce rate for game players skyrocketed.
Every time I logged on someone was chatting about their wife or husband leaving them over their game play.
I ended up quitting the game myself when I finally got tired of it.
It become drudgery and stressful instead of a relaxing diversion.
I happened to be looking around on EBay one day when I noticed that a set of boots my character had were being sold for $600
I was shocked that someone would pay what was a weeks wages for me at the time for a pair of boots that existed only as electrons in some stupid game.
I went online, took inventory of everything I owned in game and posted the items on EBay.
Not really expecting much, I didn't check my email for a few days and when I finally did every item sold. I logged on, delivered the goods and got my money through paypal.
That month I received a check for about $4500 It just happened to be enough for the down payment for our new house.
Immediately I logged back on threw on some junk armor, went out and fought an won all my equipment again and sold it.
I tried to convince one of my game junkie friends that his game bank alone was worth over a quarter of a million dollars and he should sell out. He refused, he flatly stated that selling "in game items" was immoral and only losers traded their game gear.
Soon Ebay banned all transactions of virtual property for all Sony subsidiaries.
I soon lost track of most of my friends. I can imagine they are laying in some back alley behind a Starbucks dressed in rags clutching an old laptop still playing that stupid game.
Labels: Personal interest, Society
21 Comments:
Hammer, are you kidding me? Surely this is fiction? Imaginary game items sold for thousands of dollars? I REALLY have to get out more.
One of my former roomates is like your friends. He gets a game and becomes obsessed over it & it takes over his life. He lost his girlfriend this summer because he cared more about the game than her & he's skipped more than a few classes because whatever game he was playing was more important to him. It's pretty sad that people lose sight that it's just a game that they're playing & that nobody will care how great they are in real life.
Kat, I'm not kidding.
These days there are Korean and Chinese sweat shops filed with guys "farming" the game for money and items and making millions.
Even with the thousands I made by selling my stuff if you calculated it on a pay rate rate I was probably making pennies per hour.
Brandon, I hear you bud, I see tons of folks still obsessing over these games now that there are several dozen out there.
The worst thing I read was a guy from indonesia who bought an online island and fortress for 40, 000 dollars.
All the mmorpgs I play have rules against selling game items for real money. It gets you banned if you get caught. Of course, that's just a minor inconvenience to people who will just sign up with fake info for an another account. But the ones I play are free. I can understand them not wanting you to profit from their game. If you paid to play, though, I don't see why there should be anything against selling items. Of course, what you paid for was the service. As you said, there is no actual item.
And that's what really gets me. These things do not exist, so why do they matter so much? You will never wear a pair of boots that exist as 1s and 0s that manifest as pixels. I've gotten frustrated over things in games that took me a long time to earn, what with me being on dial up and all, but I feel very confident in saying there is no freakin' way I'd ever stab somebody over pixel boots or pixel swords.
It's amazing how addictions can come in forms like this. I just can't imagine being that tied to video games, even though I indulge in them on occasion.
I don't why I was so shocked, back in the early 80's people used to get totally wrapped up in Dungeon's and Dragon's. They lost their lives in similar ways. Still astounds me. Great story Hammer.
That's my husband. I got home from work and he's got a pillow under his butt because he'd been sitting for so long playing the 'game'. When asked, he replied with attitude "it's tooken us 4 damn hours to get to this dragon." Yes darling, but in the mean time, the real world would love your participation. I hate those freaken games!
I myself used to be a crazy video game guy...
You can be helped my friend...you can be helped...
The first step is admitting there is a problem. ;)
Steve~
Were you just watching the same TV show I watched on OCD (Obsessive Compulsive Disorder)!? These people are freakishly crazy - performing "rituals" such as walking in circles counting, having to touch something so many times, one chick had to "wave to god" and look in a certain direction after brusing her teeth so that god wouldn't let her mother die. Geeze, at least we're just Blogging junkies.
Simply amazing and I believe it. I also have known of a few that were/are exactly like this. I can't associate myself with such irresponsible ignorance.
Great read. S/F!
I have setting beside me a newspaper with an article about internet addictions that i've been meaning to blog about. The whole thing hits close to home. But, I've had obsessions before & they didn't destroy me. I figure something else will come along & replace it.
OCD is completely different from addiction. I was going to say it's caused by something in the brain, but I think addiction probably is, too. Knowing a couple of recovering alcoholics, and having had such a struggle for so long myself with cigarettes, I don't believe a true addict can just "walk away". It can be done, but there's nothing simple about it. I've also heard that people with the addictive personality, if they don't end up with a chemical addiction of some type, can end up addicted to anything.
So maybe these people aren't pathetic in the sense we've all been thinking. What if they are true addicts who need help? Still... OCD is entirely different. I just can't explain how. I'm not a fancy schmancy headshrinker.
Tooken. She said tooken. heh heh heh
I'm an mmporg player myself. Started 2 years ago, still very much into the game. But mostly, I just log in and chat with my guild mates.
I used to spend so much time in it. Even have up to 12 characters at one time. But thank God that I still managed to keep my reality life going, though I did neglect parts of my life. But I guess trying to rush home early is better than finding ways to keep me entertained outside till the wee hours.
Life in the game is so realistic at times that it actually scares me. But since I meet my bf there, it is also a good way to keep our long distant relationship going.
And yes, we own a couple of items that is worth thousands of dollars. At this moment there are many buyers offering cash for these items, but we won't let go till we are ready to quit the game.
Oh yes, to prove Hammer's point further, I hooked myself to the pc just weeks ago, for some 13 hrs, just so that I can get my character to become the max level. Usually I use hack program, 24/7, to make my characters self train while I am away from the pc. But as there was an event during that period of time, instead of the usual 1 mth needed for the hack program to get my character level up, I used about two and half days.
This is how addictive it can become.
I also heard that in Indonesia, 1 guild leader was shot dead because he offended another guild leader.
Very soon, this will become a social problem if people can no longer differentiate reality and online fantasies.
Blogging is damn close to an addiction it seems.
Back in the 80s I was addicted to quarter-fed video games. I became a master of Pac Man, Dig Dug, and especially Joust. But so what? Did it do me any good? No.
My kids, and many of my relatives, don't understand why I'm so dead set against them having any VG in the home.
I still miss playing Joust.
Man, if Diablo (II) was still popular my character's items would be worth a fortune!
I used to game all of the time but haven't had time to dedicate to it in a very long time. Other than occasionally swearing my brains out though I didn't let it get to me too bad.
wow
what was the name of this game?
I am just totally astounded by this and so curious to google it.
this is a very interesting post.
it does seem like fiction, but I believe you.
you are such an interesting person!
Holy shit! $4500??? Good for you for capitalizing on that idiocy. Yeah, anything taken to extreme can be destructive. Heaven knows that I of all people understand holing up in the house and sitting at my machine like a veal, but there's a point where it's maddening to sit that still for so long. Terrible to hard-wire oneself to something so external and impersonal, really. And someone whose sold their soul to this virtual world talking about immorality? Sheesh.
Phlegmfatale:
Veal? lol that is a really good comparison.
Post a Comment
Welcome back
Subscribe to Post Comments [Atom]
<< Home