Thursday, November 30, 2006

Part II

We finally pieced together the history of my two little daughter's biological family.

The mother was a nice looking girl about 23 years old. She was addicted to painkillers and living in an old van under an overpass with her daughters. She would prostitute herself in the back of the van with the girls in the front seat. She would screw for xanex pills of all things. The girls were on a diet of big red soda served in a dirty baby bottle. Apparently the sugared soda kept them quiet.

Somebody reported this woman and the girls were immediately taken away. The mother was arrested on drug charges and ordered to clean up her life and take the mandated steps to get her children back. The girls were sent to live with the grandmother who lived in a dilapidated apartment on the west side.


Another cousin from another addict brother was living there as well. This 9 year old cousin was watching the oldest girl when she went out on the second story balcony and fell or was pushed to the parking lot below. She was treated for a concussion and a busted spleen.

Needless to say, the state took the girls away once more and sent them to live with a great aunt. This aunt lived in a garden shed with no electricity and running water. Of course the state didn't investigate and just signed the girls over to her.

The biological mother had not completed her parenting classes or received drug treatment and the state had lost track of her. She picked up the girls and took them back to the grandmothers house and lived there with them, drinking and doing drugs all the while.

The state allowed the girls to stay there until Christmas when they were to be handed off and put back into the system.

The Social worker arrived on Christmas day to take the girls back into care. the family put up a fight and the whole lot of them were arrested.

The only things the social worker was able to get that belonged to the oldest girl was her red jacket. The youngest was only able to keep a dirty rag doll. Since it was Christmas, the police officers dug around and gave the girls a couple of stuffed animals. The oldest would not take off her jacket even to sleep. She kept her meager possessions packed at all times so that she wouldn't lose what little she had left.

Since the girls were infested with lice and other vermin their hair was shaved and they were treated for malnutrition. They both had major dental surgery to extract and cap their rotted teeth.

This is when the girls went to live with Jackie the foster cow.


Next installment: Adjusting to their new permanent home and family.

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At November 30, 2006 at 9:40 PM , Anonymous Princess Saphire said...

I have a constant supply of xanex due to my attacks in the past. Now I just keep it at my side just in case the attacks are back. For the past 6 mths, I have taken all but 1/2 a pill last week. I never knew that xanex is a much sought after drug. I went to a hospital one night, many years ago, and had to request for one due to my attack then. I was astonished when I was suddenly surrounded by the doctors and questions shooted at me as if I was a drug abuser.

Only until now, then I finally realised that extend of this drug to people who needed them to survive. It is really lucky that I was never addicted to it, unless my atttaks come.

 
At December 1, 2006 at 3:17 AM , Anonymous John said...

Sick fucks. Don't even get me started on the foster fucks. I've seen that program in action.

I'd like to spend some "quality" time with all of them. You know, introduce them to the Marine Corps' new martial arts program....just a bit...not enough to kill them, just enough to make an "impression."

Grrrrrrr.....

 
At December 1, 2006 at 4:31 AM , Anonymous Kat said...

I agree with John, who said perfectly, what I wanted to say.

 
At December 1, 2006 at 5:34 AM , Anonymous kateykakes said...

Hammer,

The tears of frustration and anger at how the girls were treated, and the tears of sympathy for all they've been through have flowed freely reading both installments.

Again I say, I'm so glad the girls are now safe and will have the life they deserve with you and your wife. God bless you both.

Question for you though - what's the story with "Ellen"? Do you know if she still with the foster parents? One can only hope that she has been saved as well.

And John, I'd back that program up 100% and I'd be the first to contribute to it to keep it running. Those bastards need to be taught a lesson.

 
At December 1, 2006 at 5:50 AM , Anonymous Hammer said...

Poor ellen claimed she didn't want to be adopted. she had been back and forth with her abusive mother so many times and had resigned herself to finishing her time in foster care.

 
At December 1, 2006 at 6:38 AM , Anonymous sarahbobeara said...

how could a person treat their babies like that? makes me physically sick to think of babies being treated like that. i bet the aspca moves faster than dcf.

 
At December 1, 2006 at 7:05 AM , Anonymous Jenafear said...

Terrible what happens sometimes to kids in these situations where they are shuffled around by the State. So many of them aren't fortunate enough to get into loving homes. Simply tragic.

 
At December 1, 2006 at 8:49 AM , Anonymous Jeannie said...

I've known some foster parents and they are truly nothing like the ones you have witnessed. That's so sad. Almost makes me want to be a foster parent just to keep some kids out of homes like that. But I can't while I have the business - takes too much time.

 
At December 1, 2006 at 9:34 AM , Anonymous Kirsten N. Namskau said...

It’s an amazing story, Hammer. I’ve read both installments. I recognize much of what you tell though, when it comes to foster-parents, but I have also met good ones, thanks God. I am happy the kids are OK now, with you and your wife and their new brother. I look forward to next installment . . .

 
At December 1, 2006 at 11:41 AM , Anonymous Steven said...

The worlds fucked up my friend. Good to know there are still some decent people out there like yourself though.

Steve~

 
At December 1, 2006 at 12:58 PM , Anonymous Freddie said...

God bless you and your wife.

 
At December 1, 2006 at 6:50 PM , Anonymous Jean said...

Those poor babies! They are blessed to be with you now.

 
At December 1, 2006 at 7:03 PM , Anonymous Brandon said...

God bless you & your wife for saving those two kids, there should be more like you two.

 

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